Best Dating Sites: eHarmony vs Match vs OkCupid vs Zoosk

Sally Jones Updated: May 1, 2019 Dating 16 Comments

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New to online dating or not happy with the dating site you’ve been using? With a growing number of online dating sites — and more and more people finding significant others online — it’s hard to know where to start.

We’re here to help you unravel the mystery of online dating websites. We’ve done a lot of research comparing some of the most popular sites, so you don’t have to waste your time; instead, spend it on your ultimate goal — finding your best match.

Online Dating Statistics

When we first started researching dating sites, we thought, there can’t be that many variations to online dating. Well, we were proven wrong. That’s refreshing considering everyone has a different approach and mindset to meeting someone special, and online dating is on the rise.

According to a Statista April 2017 survey, 19% of Americans were currently using dating sites or apps (learn about more online dating statistics). There’s a dating site out there that meets almost every individual’s desire, whether it’s finding the love of your life or a casual friendship that could turn into something more.

What Are The Best Dating Sites?

With so many large-scale and smaller niche dating sites, it’s hard to pin down the best. After extensive online dating reviews research, we’ve nailed down our top picks based on site features, communication channels, privacy options, member diversity, ease of use, pricing and more.

Match.com Review

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Our #1 choice for Best Dating Site is Match.com. In fact, the founders of this website (Exploring Life’s Mysteries) met on Match.com back in 2002! With more than 21.5 million active members, 50 countries, 15 languages and over 2 decades of experience, it’s no surprise that Match.com leads the pack as the most popular (and trusted) dating site.

The sheer number of participants might make you think you have a better chance of finding someone on Match.com. They also offer some of the most sophisticated features, profile matching, search tools and communication avenues available.

Their live chat option is an excellent way to connect casually with other members with no strings attached. Although other sites are trying to set themselves apart, Match.com is still hard to beat as the best overall and diverse place to meet someone.

Key Features

Match.com is the most intuitive, feature-rich dating site we reviewed. Here are some features that set them apart from the rest.

My Connections feature organizes all your communications
You can include testimonials from friends, family or exes in your profile
ProfilePro helps create your profile (added fee)
Personality test designed by their partner site Chemistry.com
Self-search or have Match.com search for you
Private Mode allows you to search and view profiles privately and make your profile visible only to the people you choose (additional fee)
Set “deal breakers” to help narrow your search
International dating with several different languages available
“Match Events” section lists member events in larger cities
“Boost” to push your profile to the top of searches (additional fee)

Pros

Cons

Match.com Guarantee — if you don’t find someone special within 6 months you get another 6 months free
Show or hide your profile with one easy click
Excellent search and match functions
You can read your messages in your personal email account
Excellent body of tips, dating columns, newsletters with a focus on safe dating
Friends on Match.com can suggest matches for you
Customer support via live chat, phone and email

Creating your profile is a bit time-consuming
Subscriptions automatically renew unless you cancel
Private browsing costs an extra $9.99/month

Pricing

Match offers a 7-day free trial (credit card required).

Standard Plans

$35.99 for 1 month
$29.99/month; 3-month subscription
$17.99/month; 6-month subscription
$15.99/month; 12-month subscription

Premium Plans

Premium Plans include email read notification, one profile review each year and monthly boost.

$33.99/month; 3-month subscription
$19.99/month; 6-month subscription
$16.49/month; 12-month subscription

Coupon

Get 15% off your Match subscription, just use this link!

Read Our Match.com Review

Zoosk Review

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Zoosk is one of the largest dating sites online, boasting more than 40 million profiles around the world. Don’t let its massive size deter you. Zoosk has a very personalized feel to it.

It’s a fun, easy-to-use site that gives you a lot of impressive features. One feature we find interesting is its Behavioral Matchmaking engine that continually analyzes your actions on their site to further drill down to a better match.

Key Features

Although not as well-known as the other big names, Zoosk comes packed with features that are fun and interactive.

Most members are under 45 years old
SmartPick feature picks a scientifically chosen match for you every 24 hours
You can purchase Zoosk virtual coins to send members special virtual gifts or priority messages, get notified when your message gets delivered some other features
Behavioral Matchmaking keeps tabs on your site behavior to help you get a closer match — and you can see their analysis through their Insights tool
Carousel feature has rotating members, and you can simply choose yes, maybe or no
Offers international dating with several different language options
Award-winning mobile app

Pros	Cons
Free searching and winks Good tracking and organization of your communication with members Continually updates every member’s profile based on their site activity Private, invisible browsing for all members Fully integrated with Facebook and Twitter	Requires a paid subscription to chat with members Can get pricey, especially with add-on costs Some of their match picks for you live far away Email customer support only

Pricing

$29.99 for 1 month
$19.99/month; 3-month subscription
$12.49/month; 6-month subscription
$8.33/month; 12-month subscription

Coupon

At this time there are no Zoosk coupons available.

PlentyOfFish Review

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With free online dating options and great features, PlentyOfFish (POF) has grown to be one of the largest dating sites online. That’s only one reason we’ve chosen POF as our third Best Dating Site. One of its best features is its Chemistry Predictor, an insightful test that delves into the kind of person you are.

The site evolves with you, tracking who you view and tweaking who it suggests for you. POF’s website could use a facelift, but it’s fairly easy to navigate, and there are a lot of fun things to do and ways to communicate with potential matches.

Key Features

Plenty of Fish doesn’t offer quite as many features as our top two picks, but what you get for free is pretty darn impressive.

The largest free dating site in the world
Chemistry Predictor test measures characteristics like easygoingness, self-control, family orientation, self-confidence, and openness to match you with compatible personality traits.
Meet Me! feature searches for compatible matches in your geographic area
Easy-to-use, intuitive interface
Upgraded plan, which isn’t necessary for a lot of folks, is still an attractive price

Pros	Cons
It’s 100% free unless you want to upgrade for advanced features Instant messaging option — PlentyOfFish tells you who’s “online now” Numerous search options, including by personality type Great chemistry test analyzes important personality traits Mobile apps iOS, Android and Windows You can earn points and send gifts to members Customer support via live chat and phone	Not as many privacy options as other sites, but your personal information is safe Photo galleries don’t show age or location, so you have to click on each photo to view basic information

Pricing

Basic Plan: includes all the sites basic features, including communication with members.

FREE

Upgraded Plan: includes the ability to unlock every member’s extended profile, show up first on Meet Me!, see if your emails were read or deleted and more.

$19.35/month; 2-month subscription
$12.75/month; 4-month subscription
$9.99/month; 8-month subscription

Coupon

At this time there are no Plenty of Fish coupons available.

Best Dating Sites Comparison Table

See our Best Dating Websites Comparison table to get a side-by-side, easy-to-compare view of all the dating sites we’ve reviewed. Our table includes search and communication features, pricing, privacy and more to help you find the dating site that’s right for you.

	Winner: Match	Runner Up: Zoosk	3rd Place: PlentyOfFish	Chemistry	eHarmony	OKCupid
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Subscription Cost for 3 Months	$21.99/month	$19.98/month	Basic: Free Upgrade: $12.90/month	$8.99/month	$59.95/month	Basic: Free A-List: $14.95/month
Subscription Cost for 12 Months	$17.99/month	$12.49/month	Basic: Free Upgrade: $6.78/month	$6.49/month	$18.95/month	Basic: Free A-List: $9.95/month
Browse Before Joining
Match Based on Profiles
Compatibility Test
Profile Checklist
Open-Ended Questions
Activity Status
Who's Viewed						Paid Version
Search by Profile Criteria
Keyword Search						Paid Version
Search by Photos
Relationship Search Options
Match Ratings
Winks and Flirts
Text Alerts if You Get Messaged
Instant Messaging
Site Facilitates In-Person Meetings
Privacy Settings
Mobile Apps
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	Winner: Match	Runner Up: Zoosk	3rd Place: PlentyOfFish	Chemistry	eHarmony	OkCupid

Other Best Online Dating Sites Reviews

Although these other dating sites didn’t make our top three picks, each has a unique approach. All are worth considering, depending of course, on how you want to find a match online and what is the most used network in your local area.

Chemistry | eHarmony | OkCupid

Chemistry Review

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Built by the makers of Match.com, Chemistry.com’s approach to online dating is combining both compatibility and chemistry to create better matches scientifically. The mastermind of this approach is Dr. Helen Fisher, a world-renowned human behavior expert, who has developed a unique personality test based on her years of research.

The personality test is the best thing going for this site. The problem with Chemistry is two-fold. It’s a lot smaller than many other sites, so the dating pool is limited. The site also lacks many search filters and other features that you get on most dating sites. However, this may be a good starting site if you’re new to internet dating and feel overwhelmed by the large sites.

Pros	Cons
Personality test only takes about 10 minutes to complete Free search with access to members’ photos and free flirts Live chat with members that are “online now” Your privacy is closely guarded, and it’s easy to block users	Not many features compared to other sites You get fewer daily matches than other sites You have to buy a subscription to message with members Much smaller dating pool, especially in less populated regions No mobile apps Very limited customer support

Pricing

$13.99 for 1 month
$8.99/month; 3-month subscription
$6.49/month; 6-month subscription

eHarmony Review

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You’re likely familiar with eHarmony from their TV ads featuring founder Dr. Neil Warren. Dr. Warren has been a marriage psychologist for 35 years and has written numerous books on relationships. Has his expertise translated well into the online dating world? It’s hard to tell. eHarmony isn’t right for everyone.

Their niche is for lasting, meaningful relationships; their approach is scientific and a bit boring; and they do most of the match work for you. The major feature missing? — and this is pretty major in our book — you can’t conduct your own search.

So, you have to put your faith (and money) in their hands. Still, eHarmony has more than 20 million members (and claims 600,000 marriages and counting), so they must be doing something right!

Pros

Cons

eHarmony Guarantee — if you’re not happy with your matches within 3 months, you get another 3 months free
Good, in-depth compatibility test
You can view eHarmony’s initial matches for you before you join
Extensive profile that’s more thorough than most sites we’ve reviewed
Good communication avenues, plus mobile app
Excellent resources for dating and relationship advice
Focus is on creating lasting relationships (queue wedding bells)
Award-winning customer support via phone and email

Expensive
You can’t conduct your own search
Your compatibility pool is a lot smaller than other sites
Could be more fun and interactive
Not geared toward same-sex relationships, although they do give you the option
The focus is on creating lasting relationships (only want casual? Look elsewhere.)

Pricing

$59.95/month; 1-month subscription
$39.95/month; 6-month subscription
$18.95/month; 12-month subscription

eHarmony Coupon

eHarmony is offering 30% Off a 6-Month Membership with code EHLOVE. Use this link to take advantage of this offer.

OkCupid Review

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Match.com-owned OkCupid is one of a handful of free (and reputable) dating sites. OkCupid has a good profile and match system, and you can search for matches based on location, age and relationship expectations.

This is a fun, quirky dating site that has a lot of opportunities for members to interact and participate, not only with potential matches but also with the site community as a whole.

Ok Cupid tends to attract more creative, educated types. They claim they’re the “fastest-growing online dating site,” so perhaps in the future, they’ll give the big players a run for their money.

Pros

Cons

Free version lets you search and communicate
Profile questions and quizzes like “The Nerd? Geek? Or Dork? Test” are fun and easy ice breakers
Each profile question gives you the option of indicating whether that value is important or not to you with a potential match and how important that question is to you
Excellent privacy settings
You can see who’s online
Full-featured mobile apps for iPhone and Android
Quick customer support via live chat and email

You must pay per month if you want to eliminate the annoying site ads or want better search options
No winks or flirts
Matching science isn’t as sophisticated as Match or eHarmony

Pricing

Basic Plan: offers all the basic features you’ll need to connect with matches.

FREE

A-List Plan: gives you advanced search options, message filters, ad-free website, the ability to store up to 5,000 messages, browse profiles invisibly, see who likes you, and Incognito Mode, which allows you to hand-pick who sees you on the site.

$19.95 for 1 month
$14.95/month; 3-month subscription
$9.95/month; 6-month subscription

A-List Premium Plan: includes daily profile boost, increased attractiveness, message priority plus all the A-List features.

$34.90 for 1 month
$29.90/month; 3-month subscription
$24.90/month; 6-month subscription

Playing It Safe: Online Dating Tips

Many of these safety tips might seem pretty obvious, but it’s a good idea to keep them in mind, so you don’t get swept up in the moment of a new match.

Don’t give out too much personal information, like your address, home phone number or last name (until you’ve met at least once).
Don’t friend a potential date on Facebook or follow them on Instagram. (Again, protect your privacy!)
Google your potential dates to verify as much as you can before you meet. (Is that really his photo?)
If someone you’re chatting with asks you for money — HUGE red flag. Time to move on.
Drive yourself (or have a friend drive you) and meet in a public place for the first date.
Tell a friend where and when you’re meeting. Better yet, have someone on standby in case you need to get out of a precarious situation.
Stay sober, so your judgment isn’t impaired.
Trust your instincts — if something doesn’t seem right, don’t just blow it off. Your intuition usually knows best.

Check out the video below to see what advice Zoosk’s dating and relationship expert has for online dating.

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About The Author: Sally Jones

Sally holds a bachelor’s degree in English and a minor in anthropology from James Madison University. She went on to pursue a master’s in journalism at The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. An international traveler since she was under 10 years old, Sally loves exploring the world’s mysteries first-hand. Her favorite destinations? Greece, the British Virgin Islands and NYC.

She also spent much of her career in health sciences communications and has enjoyed working with and learning from some of the world’s leading academic scientists in genetics, global health, addiction research and other fields. Her work has appeared in many notable media outlets, including The Washington Post, Entrepreneur, People, Forbes, Huffington Post, and more.

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